Book Author: E-Da`wah Committee (EDC)
Publisher: E-Da`wah Committee
Year of Publication: 2015
Book Description:
Women’s rights are always used for vilifying Islam and espousing
Christianity on the pretext that Christianity is mostly deemed more
equitable towards women in terms of marriage rulings. The E-Da`wah
Committee is pleased to present this publication to explore women’s
rights in terms of marriage rulings between Christianity and Islam.
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Women’s
rights are always used for vilifying Islam and espousing Christianity
on the pretext that Christianity is mostly deemed more equitable towards
women in terms of marriage rulings. However, let’s avoid empty talk and
false slogans and explore women’s rights in terms of marriage rulings
between Christianity and Islam.
Women’s Rights and Marriage
Marriage ensures the decency of woman and man on an equal footing.
However, marriage is more beneficial to woman than man for it provides
her with a caretaker and custodian rather than just a male. This can be
available only within legitimate marriage. Out of wedlock, a woman
cannot have a caretaker and custodian within an honorable, decent
framework.
On the contrary, man can dispense with the benefits which he may get
from a wife in an illegitimate way. He may buy both sexual gratification
and housekeeping with money.
Anyway, despite the considerable benefits marriage provides for man
and the more considerable benefits it does woman, Christianity
recommends celibacy and misogamy.
In the New Testament, we read the following verses:
Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a
man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” (1 Corinthians 7:1)
“To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single as I am.” (1 Corinthians 7:8)
“Now about virgins: I have no command from the Lord, but I give a
judgment as one who by the Lord’s mercy is trustworthy. Because of the
present crisis, I think that it is good for a man to remain as he is.
Are you pledged to a woman? Do not seek to be released. Are you free
from such a commitment? Do not look for a wife. But if you do marry, you
have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. But those
who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you
this.” (1 Corinthians 7:25-28)
“I want you to be free from anxieties. The unmarried man is anxious
about the things of the Lord, how to please the Lord. But the married
man is anxious about worldly things, how to please his wife, and his
interests are divided. And the unmarried or betrothed woman is anxious
about the things of the Lord, how to be holy in body and spirit. But the
married woman is anxious about worldly things, how to please her
husband. I say this for your own benefit, not to lay any restraint upon
you, but to promote good order and to secure your undivided devotion to
the Lord.” (1 Corinthians 7:32-35)
“So then, he who marries the virgin does right, but he who does not
marry her does better. A woman is bound to her husband as long as he
lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes,
but he must belong to the Lord. In my judgment, she is happier if she
stays as she is—and I think that I too have the Spirit of God.” (1
Corinthians 7:38-40)
Needless to say, monks and nuns are under an obligation to remain
celibate so that the “celibacy vow” will not be broken, following in the
footsteps of Mary and her son, Jesus Christ.
However, though such imposition of celibacy goes against the human
nature, and what is more, is not provided for in the Bible, it still
involves equality between man and woman. Yet, the imposition of celibacy
on women goes farther than that in Christianity to such an extent which
oversteps the bounds of justice and equality.
Christianity prohibits widows and divorcees from remarriage and
prohibits men from marrying them. It deems their desire for marriage a
sort of a lack of dedication to Christ. We read: “As for younger widows,
do not put them on such a list. For when their sensual desires overcome
their dedication to Christ, they want to marry.” (1 Timothy 5:11)
Christianity warns against marrying divorcees and likens marriage
with a divorcee to that with an adulteress. In the New Testament, we
read: “And anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.”
(Matthew 5:32) We also read: “And whoever will take her who is divorced
commits adultery.” (Matthew 19:9)
As for Islam, it makes it incumbent on all able-bodied men who can
afford marriage to marry. At the same time, it makes it lawful for all
unmarried Muslim women to get married.
Anas reported that three men came to the houses of the wives of the
Prophet (peace be upon him) to inquire about the worship of the Prophet.
When they were informed, they considered their worship insignificant
and said: “Where are we in comparison with the Prophet while God has
forgiven his past sins and future sins?” One of them said: “As for me, I
shall offer Salah all night long.” Another said: “I shall observe
fasting continuously and shall not break it”. Another said: “I shall
abstain from women and shall never marry”. The Prophet came to them and
said, “Are you the people who said such and such things? By God, I fear
God more than you do, and I am most obedient and dutiful among you to
Him, but still I observe fasting and break it; perform Salah and sleep
at night and take wives. So whoever turns away from my Sunnah
(tradition) does not belong to me”. (Bukhari and Muslim)
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