Yasir Birjas
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What you hold in your hands is a detailed look at the process and rites
of marriage in Islam as explained by Shaykh Yaser Birjas. The seminar
begins with a discussion of the various concepts of love as defined by
Islam and other competing theories. It then presents the flqh of
marriage beginning with the search for a suitable spouse, following the
entire process including the details of the marriage contract and then
concluding with advice for marriage life.
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Contents Of Love notes the Master Reference:
Forward:………………2
Mission:………………5
Introduction………………6
Classic Islamic Works on Love:………………7
Common Problems Facing Muslims in the West:………………7
Preface: The Faqeeh of Love………………8
The Zhahiri Madhhab………………9
Chapter 1: Jesting about Love………………11
Islam and Love ………………12
Muslim scholars on the theories of love ………………13
Love and Images………………16
Ruling of Love ………………17
The Story of Yusuf ………………19
Falling in Love ………………21
What Harms Love? ………………22
Khadija or Aisha?………………23
Chapter Two: The Earnestness of Love………………24
Family life: Basic Principles………………24
Structures and Rules………………26
The Greatest Women……………….28
Marriage: The Definition………………29
The first marriage: Adam and Hawwa ………………29
Marriage before Islam………………30
Wisdoms behind Polygamy………………33
Heterosexuality or Homosexuality? ………………33
Islam and celibacy………………35
Legal Definition of Marriage………………36
The Purpose of Marriage………………36
Characteristics desirable in the Groom………………39
Selecting a Prospective Spouse………………41
Class Activity: Delaying Marriages………………45
The Procedure of Selecting a Bride………………45
The Procedure of Selecting a Groom………………47
Questionable Ways………………51
Consequences of a Marriage Contract………………52
Chapter 3 – Marital Rights………………54
Gender Equity in Islam………………54
Rights and Obligations………………57
The Rights of Spouses………………58
The Rights of the Husband………………58
The Rights of the Wife………………61
Life of Rasulullah………………63
Chararcteristics of his (pbuh) Marriage Life………………63
Chapter 4– An-Nushooz: Marital Discord………………71
What causes Marital Discord?………………72
The different categories of marriage………………72
She Loves Me? He Loves me Not? ………………73
Chapter 5 – The Languages of Love………………75
Men are From Makkah, Women are from Madinah………………77
Languages of Love………………80
Public display of Affection………………83
Final advice………………84
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